Not hired

So I was interviewing someone to clean my house since I’m too sick to do it myself. I made the mistake of mentioning my migraine and was treated to a mini-lecture on how I could cure my migraine if I learned to control my stress with yoga and meditation.

Thanks to years of yoga and meditation, I simply smiled and showed her to the door.

Heroes aren’t malingerers

I really hate that trope where one of our heroes is super sick or injured and to show how great they are the writers have them keep trying to get out of bed, push themselves, go against doctor/healer recommendations, etc.. Like, if you don’t push until you literally collapse, until your friends are tying you to the bed/magically sedating you/actually sedating you, you’re a big ole FAKER.

Heroes don’t take care of themselves; they push until they have a crisis and everyone is forced to take care of them or they die.

It’s so selfish and counterproductive.

It has nothing to do with death

Migraine by Jake and Dinos Chapman


Jake & Dinos Chapman, Migraine, 2013
Human skull, resin and oil paint

“And anyway, our title is Migraine – it has nothing to do with death, apart from the fact that when you have a migraine, you want to die.”

[link discussing exhibit and sculpture with artist Dinos Chapman]