Racism today, and a little history

Feministing points to an incredible article up at Alternet about white privilege and the current election.

White privilege is when you can get pregnant at 17 like Bristol Palin and everyone is quick to insist that your life and that of your family is a personal matter, and that no one has a right to judge you or your parents, because “every family has challenges,” even as black and Latino families with similar “challenges” are regularly typified as irresponsible, pathological and arbiters of social decay.

White privilege is when you can call yourself a “fuckin’ redneck,” like Bristol Palin’s boyfriend does, and talk about how if anyone messes with you, you’ll “kick their fuckin’ ass,” and talk about how you like to “shoot shit” for fun, and still be viewed as a responsible, all-American boy (and a great son-in-law to be) rather than a thug.

Over at Edge of the American West, eric looks at US and German laws on race in the 1930s and asks an interesting question:

One may want initially to protest casual moral equivalence between these two regimes; one even wants to say, of course, that the US did not descend that further step into racist depravity represented by the Final Solution. But Ferguson’s parallel poses an interesting challenge: suppose he is right that short of industrialized genocide the two states did not substantially differ. What made the Germans take that step, and what stopped the Americans from taking it? Was it merely that the Germans went first, became our antagonists in a war for survival, and only thus showed the US whither its racial laws were tending?

Monday feminism

I really enjoy gender performance and the butch/femme dynamic, but a lot of people see butch/femme as a reenactment of sexist heterosexual relationship roles.  So I was excited to read Sublime Femme’s post The Feminist Fairytale about Butch/Femme.  Of course, I wasn’t disappointed.  It’s absolutely fantastic.  I tried to excerpt it here, but ended up copying practically the whole post – so just go read it.

Sexist ideas about masculinity and femininity are leading to underdiagnosis of autism in girls.

Uganda’s ethics and integrity minister wants to ban miniskirts for traffic safety.

As Republicans claim that all criticism of Sarah Palin is sexist, Katha Pollit comes up with 12 pointed questions for the candidate, including:

You say you don’t believe global warming is man-made. Could you tell us what scientists you’ve spoken with or read who have led you to that conclusion? What do you think the 2,500 scientists of the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change are getting wrong?

Cindy and John McCain say you have experience in foreign affairs because Alaska is next to Russia. When did you last speak with Prime Minister Putin, and what did you talk about?

You’ve suggested that God approves of the Iraq War and the Alaska pipeline. How do you know?

A Life Less Convenient

I’ve struggled a lot with my migraines the past few months.  I’ve been thinking a lot about how I have to change the pace of my life and my own expectations for myself.  Several years ago, a wonderful friend of mine sent me a book written by a woman with lupus.  I wasn’t about having lupus.  It was about having relationships while her body betrayed and abused her.  Jennifer Clare Burke’s A Life Less Convenient: Letters to My Ex isn’t very comforting.  Things often end badly.  But there is beauty and happiness and, most importantly, she keeps going, which seems absolutely impossible to me sometimes.  I’ve been going back to this book a lot lately.  Somewhere between keeping up with school and work and being miserably ill, relationships escape me.

Your smile grew by another inch, and you came toward me from your chair.  I wanted to be just as happy to find you.  I wanted you.  But I reached for the pain pills.