Re-post: Why do we watch Doctor Who?: A fan scholar’s perspective
It might not have much to do with the Doctor at all.

Yes, the female characters are secondary. But that’s a production decision. And fans don’t generally let production decisions get in the way when there is still something to scavenge from the show. This is the beautiful thing about fans: they don’t let creators tell them how they get to experience the show.

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